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Friday, December 13, 2013

Wellness Wheel - Creating a Balance

Wayne Coghlan, B.Sc., M.A., D.C. M.A. in Counselling Psychology. Anger Management Collingwood. Anger management, Family and Marital Counselling, Stress Management, Personal psychology and counselling, Counseling, Counselling Collingwood, Men's issues As also a Doctor of Chiropractic I have a special appreciation of the mind-body connection.

 
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Living in Balance

Wellness is more than just eating your greens and washing your hands... of course those are important habits. But what if you are working to the point that your relationship with your family and community suffers? What if you live to work but don't have a greater sense of purpose?

Healthy living requires a multidimensional approach. You are a whole being and therefore need to examine all the facets of your life. Attached are two versions of the wellness wheel with the components listed. Although you may find many versions of the wellness wheel, they all essentially cover the same aspects.

  • Spiritual: Commitment, active devotional, worship and service life
  • Emotional: Development, in touch with and express feelings creatively
  • Intellectual: Continued learning, reading, training
  • Relationships: Close, intimate and nurturing
  • Physical: Regular exercise, rest, healthy diet, weight control
  • Family: Emotional involvement, connection, supportive, quality time
  • Relaxation: Stress and time management, fun, rest, play
  • Hobbies: Meaningful and fulfilling for creative expression and fulfillment
  • Financial: Living within means, responsible, saving, giving
  • Professional: Contented, fulfilled, using your abilities
  • Service: Actively involved in serving others
  • Purpose: Having a clearly defined life purpose and working towards fulfilling it.

Print this image and then on the spokes of the wheel score yourself (with ten being the highest level of achievement). You can colour the wheel from the center out if you like the artistic approach. This will give you some measure of how balanced your life is ... or how much out of balance it is.

The goal is to have a full and rounded wheel.  Just as with a bicycle wheel, flat areas make for a bumpy and less than comfortable ride through life.


With a different color or pattern shade in where you would like to be in a six month's time. Then make a plan of how you will work towards achieving these goals.

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Here is an alternate presentation of the Wellness Wheel. Note that some of the dimensions have been customized as can your own wheel. The dimensions being what you have determined are important to your concept of complete wellness.
If you have any questions about your own well being and how to better round out your life, please give me a call and we can talk.

Best regards,

Wayne Coghlan, 
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Wayne Coghlan A graduate of the University of Guelph School of Human Biology, and the Canadian Memorial Chiropractic College. Further education in Sports Sciences, and I just completed a Master's degree in Counselling Psychology. Played varsity sports - Rugby, Football. Worked my way through school doing physical labour ... I know the realities of the work place. Gardening, canoe trips, Being a good parent.
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Thursday, December 5, 2013

Wayne Coghlan, B.Sc., M.A., D.C. M.A. in Counselling Psychology. Anger Management Collingwood. Anger management, Family and Marital Counselling, Stress Management, Personal psychology and counselling, Counseling, Counselling Collingwood, Men's issues As also a Doctor of Chiropractic I have a special appreciation of the mind-body connection.




Sleep Better

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Sleep Better - Some suggestions
We all have times when adequate sleep seems to elude us.  For the most part, these episodes are a short lived part of the normal cycles of life. *

Persistent lack of sleep - beyond several weeks at a time - produces fatigue, depression, confusion, impaired short-term memory, concentration and alertness. Long term lack of sleep impairs your ability to fight off disease and repair tissue.
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Effects of chronic sleep deprivation


Your proper sleep pattern is what works for you. There are documented cases of people who get by very well with only a few hours of sleep yet others who feel their best with ten! People in many tropical countries find it very necessary to enjoy their mid-day ciesta. If you are reasonably well rested through your day and able to function well, lack of sleep is not necessarily your problem.

Your habits - both what you think and do - can cause many chronic sleep problems. 


Sleep problems are not insurmountable.  If your sleep is disturbed over longer periods of time, the suggestions in this post can help you sort your way through.

Here are seven ways to sleep better.

Sweet Dreams!

If ongoing sleeplessness is a concern to you, take a look at your habits and do some fine tuning as necessary.


1. Establish a sleep schedule. 

Going to bed too early?  Many people will go to bed because they are bored. Then they are frustrated because they aren’t tired enough to sleep well.  This only results in longer periods of lousy sleep.

Instead, decrease your slumber time by retiring later, to when you are obviously tired, and also rising earlier. You may get less bed-rest, but if you accept you’ll sleep more soundly, you will lose your apprehension about it. 

Your body’s internal timekeepers want predictability.  Going to bed and getting up at the same time every day, including weekends, is probably the most important step towards establishing good sleep patterns.  
Circles of daily life

Studies find that adults who sleep more than eight hours a night (long sleepers) or less than seven hours of slumber, report more sleep complaints than people who get just the right amount of shuteye -- between seven and eight hours per night.  Too much sleep may be just as unhealthy as too little.


Save the bedroom for sleep and romance
Limit bedroom activities. 

Watching TV, scheduling tomorrow’s agenda, problem-solving with your spouse and even reading are activities associated with wakefulness.  These activities can help someone wind down, but if your rest is poor, use the bedroom strictly for sleep (and romance).  This helps separate the active part of your life from sleep time. 

  









2. Separate sleep from wakefulness. 

If you can't sleep - stop trying.
If you persistently find yourself lying awake for a long time, you may soon expect to have troublefalling asleep. Often, worrying about lack of sleep keeps people awake!

When you languish between sleep and wakefulness for more than 15 minutes, get up.  Watch a quiet nature program or read something dull.  Go back to bed only when you feel drowsy.




3. Regulate your body heat.

Even small ups and downs in body temperature play a large role in your biological rhythms.  Sleep generally follows the cooling phase of your body’s temperature cycle.  Normally, peaks and troughs in temperature parallel exposure to light and darkness, but if your inner thermostat is following its own independent schedule, your sleep may be disrupted. 

A hot bath just before bedtime can increase body temperature ... if you have trouble sleeping, bathe earlier or enjoy a warm but not a hot bath.

Avoid vigorous activity within a few hours of bedtime as it can raise your body temperature and keep you awake. 

While exercise early in the day does not directly promote better sleep at night, it does promote better wakefulness.  Getting outdoors and exposure to early morning sunshine can help keep your system in synch with the natural light-dark cycle. Exercise helps promote emotional and physical wellbeing and is associated with healthier sleep patterns. 


4. Skip caffeine - even in mid-afternoon. 
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Stimulants..get it?!

Caffeine is a stimulant and can linger in the system up to eight hours.  Even for people who drink coffee before bed and think they sleep well, research shows significant sleep disturbances when monitored in the lab.  Remember that tea, chocolate, colas, other foods and many medications can contain caffeine and may impair sleep. 

Smoking impairs sleep because nicotine has a stimulant effect similar to caffeine.


Avoid nightcaps. 

While alcohol does help you fall asleep, as it is metabolized by the body, it releases a natural stimulant that disrupts sleep during the second half of the night.  The greater the quantity of alcohol consumed, the worse the disruption.

A small snack - not a feast - eaten before bed promotes sleep.


5. Screen out nocturnal noises.

You will likely get used to soft, rhythmic sounds such as the furnace kicking in, however, louder sporadic noise from traffic or aircraft can be more disruptive than you might think.

If you can’t eliminate the noise, try muffling its sound.  Carpeting and draperies help. 

Create white noise - an even low level sound that masks other more intrusive noise.... Run a fan, tune the radio to a blank spot on the dial.


6. People who try to ‘sleep on their problems’ neither solve their problems nor get their sleep.

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Do battle through the day - you've earned your rest.
It’s hard to sleep if you’re a wound tangle of nerves.  Some helpful suggestions...

Leave work at work.  Since we’re paid to fill our minds with ideas, letting go of them isn’t always easy.   Create a symbol or simple ritual to signify the end of your work day... shutting off your computer, ceremonially closing the door, locking your desk... buying a flower….when the ritual is done, so is the work day.  If you must bring work home, when you have given your due, put the work away and close the ‘box‘.  You control your work, it does not control you.

If you are a worrier and its bedtime when your mind wanders, carve 30 minutes of ‘worry time’ out of your day.  Write down your thoughts and plan of action.  If your troubles return as you try to dose off, tell yourself, “I’ve already worked that out and now it’s my time ... to sleep.”

Jot down your thoughts on a notepad through the evening or keep one at the bedside.  Let the notepad ’remember’ your thoughts instead of holding them in your head all night long.

7. Practice progressive relaxation.  Starting from the top of your head, let the tension go ... relax the furrows in your forehead ... lips together - teeth apart ...  breath deep - feel your chest and diaphragm move gently ... relax the neck and shoulders - feel them get heavier ... let the feeling spread into your arms and hands as you let them ease ... continue into the buttocks .... legs ... feet.

Mind trip your way to progressive relaxation
A personal favourite is to imagine myself alone on a beach. Then to see in my mind's eye the sand glinting in the sun, the blue of the water as it meets the blue of the sky, the clouds drifting, hear the waves washing on the shore, the sound of the birds overhead, feel the breeze against your skin.... use all your senses to create a virtual experience... then allow yourself peace and rest....

If anxiety continues to get the better of you, consider the services of a qualified counselor, therapist or clergy.


For Your Consideration....

The concept of eight hours of uninterrupted sleep may not be natural to humans.  It is more an adaptation to the industrial -commercial work schedule.  
Prior to the industrial revolution, people would retire shortly after dark, sleep for several hours then awake. During the mid-night hours people might pray, practice music, do chores, visit with the neighbours or be active under the moon’s light... then sleep several more hours until dawn.  People commonly referred to their first sleep and second sleep. Is it possible then, that being awake in the wee hours is natural?

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Close your eyes and drift with the music... The Lady of Shallot
Have you ever wished you had an extra hour in your day?  Perhaps you do. Rather than lament lost sleep, consider the extra hours as found wakeful time.  This could be time to stay current in your reading... learn a musical instrument... develop some creative skill.... advance your knowledge.

Also, for your consideration....

Stress, negative thoughts, worry and emotional upsets can manifest themselves in the spine and muscles.  The function of the spine and muscles can be impaired by repetitive motions, long periods of sitting, improper lifting and many everyday activities.   The mind-body connection can get locked into destructive patterns... impaired sleep is one symptom that something is wrong.  
Myofascial trigger points - mind-body connection - Chiropractic = Relief

Chiropractic helps restore the ability of the mind and body to relieve stress and permit rest .... chiropractic is safe and naturally effective.

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This brochure is offered for information and guidance.  Sometimes, poor sleep can signal other health problems.  If your concerns persist, consult your health professional.






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 Sleep better
Sleep better - naturally

Sleep naturally - Collingwood Chiropractor


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Monday, December 2, 2013

Gratitude - A Foundation of Happiness

Wayne Coghlan, B.Sc., M.A., D.C. M.A. in Counselling Psychology. Anger Management Collingwood. Anger management, Family and Marital Counselling, Stress Management, Personal psychology and counselling, Counseling, Counselling Collingwood, Men's issues As also a Doctor of Chiropractic I have a special appreciation of the mind-body connection. 

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From my own perspective, the pursuit of happiness is like chasing a carrot on a stick. Yet if one chooses wholesome thoughts and pursues a wholesome lifestyle, happiness may then ... ensue.

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Gratitude - A Foundation of Happiness


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Want to be happy? Be grateful: Brother David Steindl-Rast at TEDGlobal 2013

Sourced from: Helen Walters Dec. 2/13 http://blog.ted.com/2013/06/14/want-to-be-happy-be-grateful-brother-david-steindl-rast-at-tedglobal-2013/

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David Steindl-Rast is a monk, and a composed, serene figure to wrap up the last session of TEDGlobal 2013. His theme, gratefulness, is also appropriate for the end of a long and intense week. After all, he points out, we all share the same essential goal: to be happy. And gratitude provides the key. “We all know people who have lots of misfortunes that we ourselves would not want to have, and they are deeply happy, they radiate happiness,” he says. Why are they like this? “Because they are grateful. It is not happiness that makes us grateful, but gratefulness that makes us happy.”

So how exactly do we live gratefully? ”By becoming aware that every moment is a ‘given moment,’ as we say,” Steindl-Rast explains. “It’s a gift. You haven’t earned it or brought it about. And you have no way of assuring there will be another moment given to you.” As such, we should consider each moment as precious and a great opportunity. “If you didn’t have this present moment you wouldn’t have any opportunity to do or experience anything.”

So what about that saying, “opportunity knocks only once.” Not true, says the good brother. “Think again. Every moment is a new gift.” Miss the opportunity of one moment and another one will be right along. “The master key to our happiness is in our own hands. Moment by moment we can be grateful for this gift.” It’s a beautifully simple but powerful thought.

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So does this mean we should be grateful for everything, even bad stuff? Certainly not. “We cannot be grateful for violence, for war, for oppression, for exploitation,” says Steindl-Rast. “On a personal level we cannot be grateful for the loss of a friend, for unfaithfulness, for bereavement.” But he has a way to think about such bleak moments, too. “Even when we are confronted by something terribly difficult, we can rise to the occasion and respond to the opportunity given to us.” Sometimes the lesson of a painful experience is a chance to learn. We certainly tend to admire those who take something positive from a negative experience. And for those who don’t quite manage it this time, another opportunity will be along in a minute. “Phew,” says someone in the audience.

Steindl-Rast even has practical advice for living gratefully, moment by moment. It’s based on the advice children are given when learning to cross the road:

STOP: “We rush through life; we don’t stop, and we miss opportunities because we don’t stop,” he says. He tells us the story of returning home after spending time in a remote part of Africa, where there was no electricity, no water. At home, he was overwhelmed with gratitude every time he turned on a faucet or clicked on a light. Even after he re-assimilated into home life, he left stickers on the tap and switch to remind himself to be grateful for the resources.

LOOK: We must use all our senses to soak in the wonderful richness that life has given to us. “That is what life is about, to enjoy what is given to us,” he says. “When we open our hearts to opportunities, opportunities invite us to do something.”

GO: We should do whatever life offers to us in that present moment. Sometimes that might be difficult, but we should go with it and do our best to enjoy every moment.

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It sounds simple, but Steindl-Rast thinks it might just spark a revolution. “Gratefulness can change our world in immensely important ways,” he says. “If you’re grateful, you’re not fearful. If you’re not fearful, you’re not violent. The grateful act out of a sense of enough, not scarcity, so they are willing to share.” Being grateful does no less than change the power balance of life. “It’s a nonviolent revolution that even revolutionizes the concept of revolution,” he says happily, to laughs from the crowd. “Grateful people are joyful people; the more joyful people are, the more we’ll have a joyful world.”





A brief biography...

Dr. Wayne Coghlan. Is a graduate of the University of Guelph School of Human Biology, and the Canadian Memorial Chiropractic College. He has further education in Sports Sciences, and completed a Master's degree in Counselling Psychology; Played varsity sports - Rugby, Football; and Worked his way through school doing physical labour ... "I know the realities of the work place." Hobbies include Gardening, canoe trips, Being a good parent, and member of the community.

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